Moodzie knows sometimes it can be hard to let go of things, as we as humans may at times get so accustomed to our way of life, and doing the things we are used to, that we just do not want to see change. Whether that thing be something materialistic like a toy or game, or something else much more intimate and emotional such as a grudge against a friend, we as humans need to learn to let these silly things go. Moodzie knows, sometimes a friend or even a family member can hurt your feelings, but we have to realize that these things if they do happen usually happen by mistake, and hence we have to learn to forgive, rather than holding a grudge against a friend. As Moodzie knows if you hold a grudge against that friend, you will just end up feeling worse, and think about it a lot more, however if you just let it go, you forgive your friend, you will for some reason feel a ton better, like a weight has been lifted off you, and you will realize you have done the right thing. If you still are finding it a tough task to forgive your friend or whomever hurt you, Moodzie has a tip, imagine yourself in their shoes, by that meaning imagine that you had accidentally hurt your friend and now he or she has a grudge against you meaning, that now you have lost a friend because of your actions and have hurt somebody, thus this will induce a feeling of guilt inside a person, which can also be very painful and hard to deal with.
On the other end Moodzie realizes that many times we may become attached to material things, and sometimes those things may be harmful to us, however we still struggle to let those things go. These can be things such as videogames or unhealthy foods, both in a way are material things, which can be easily addicting. However, at times, we have to be strong and realize that if these material things are harming us, we must let them go. As Moodzie really loved playing this one video game named Call of Duty, however Moodzie realized that he was playing this game so much, that Moodzie was nearly spending the bulk of the day playing a video game, and also that videogame gave Moodzie violent tendencies, hence Moodzie realized it was for Moodzie to let go off that game, as it was serving Moodzie little to no benefit but only wasting of Moodzie’s time and harming Moodzie.
Letting go off material things, may sound easy to some, however it can be a very tough task to accomplish, as at times, we as humans get so attached to material things, that we treat them with an emotional sentiment, hence it can really become like letting go of something that is an important aspect of one’s life. However, whether it be material or something sentimental, we must learn to go of things to further improve ourselves and be happy. As to let go of something when important is essential for improved emotional and mood regulation.
Tip 1: The best thing you can do is learning how to forgive.
Children are often asked to forgive: forgive his sibling for taking their toy; forgive Johnny for pulling her hair at recess; forgive Mom for being late. When you ask your child to forgive — to say “okay” when someone has said they are “sorry” — does your child really understand what that means?
Tip 2: Write down your challenge, place it in a balloon and let it go.
One of my favorite child meditations is to invite a child to imagine they are breathing their worries, troubles, or triggers into balloons. Then I have the child imagine they are simply noticing the worry without judging it. When they are ready, they can choose to let the worry go and watch it as it…
Tip 3: Tell someone or ask for help.
One area that I’m focusing on with Max at the moment is helping him to figure out when he needs to get help. Like a lot of autistic kids, he finds it difficult to know when or how to go about getting it – shoe laces that come untied, a homework question that he’s stuck on, even some pretty serious injuries are all suffered in silence until they happen to come to my attention.
Tip 4: Write down your challenge and throw it in the trash.
Bothered by negative thoughts? Clearing your mind of them could be as simple as writing them down and physically throwing them away, according to a new study, published in the journal Psychological Science . “At some level, it can sound silly.
Tip 5: Learn a new skill or distract yourself.
Tip 6: Imagine yourself in the other person’s shoes or you are rising above it.
Tips 7: Use a stress ball.
Stress balls are small balls or objects filled with a malleable gel or clay that are held in the palm of your hand. The act of repeatedly squeezing the ball releases tension and helps to relieve stress. The benefits of stress balls also include boosting blood circulation and helping with the treatment of carpal-tunnel syndrome — and they’re used…
Tip 8: Change your thoughts to positive ones.
Don’t you want your children to grow up to be smart? You would always want them to look confident and wear a positive attitude. While most parents confess that their children are quite self-sufficient and smart, yet they feel that a positive attitude is missing.
Tip 9: Remind yourself these are your only three options:
- remove yourself from the situation
- change it
- accept it
Tip 10: Laughing will help to let it go!
Tip 11: Get busy and organise something so you feel in control.
(12) Breathing and relaxing will help.
Tip 13: Meditate, stretch or yoga helps to calm and let it go.